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The Random 19 with Singer-songwriter Beverley Craven

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Beverley Craven has sold over four million records in her career, and is best known for her 1991 UK hit single Promise Me.

Beverley fell in love with the north of Dorset visiting her father, who lived near Dorchester for many years.

In 2018 she announced the
Woman to Woman tour, but it was put on hold when Beverley was diagnosed with breast cancer and underwent a double mastectomy and lymph node surgery. The tour, with fellow British singer-songwriters Judie Tzuke, Julia Fordham and Rumer is now back on the road – see it at the Pavilion Theatre Bournemouth on 5th November this year.

1. What’s your relationship with the Blackmore Vale (the loose North Dorset area, not us!)?

My Dad, who passed away recently, lived in the village of Puddletown on the river Piddle (which has always amused me). And before that he lived in Dewlish for many years.

2. What was the last song you sang out loud in your car?

Can I cheat? Only I prefer to sing in the shower (the accoustics are better!). I think it might have been ‘I Can’t Stand The Rain’.

3. It’s Friday night – you have the house to yourself, and no work is allowed. What are you going to do?

I would start with a long bath – deep and hot – followed by a large vodka & tonic in my dressing gown and slipper socks, semi-reclined on my bed, probably binge-watching a nice series on Netflix. And being very happy – I love being at home on my own with the dog.

4. Who’s your celebrity crush?

I’ve never had a thing for celebs. I couldn’t understand why the girls at school either liked David Cassidy or Donny Osmond; Really? Both were far too virtuous and clean-living for me!

5. What’s your comfort meal?

Something involving mashed potato – I am Queen of Mash – with gravy or a cheese sauce and lots of veggies, followed by a crumble (I like to make apple and mango with warmed Ambrosia custard) and then a cup of chamomile tea.


This goodest of girls is Lizzie, Beverley’s third Staffordshire Bull Terrier, though she’s quick to point out that she adores ALL dogs; “it’s just some owners I can’t stand”

6. What would you like to tell 15yr old you?
To read ‘Desiderata’. That marriage is not a good idea, except for tax purposes. That everyone is flawed and to be myself.

7. What was the best thing before sliced bread?

Sliced ‘Soreen’ malt loaf!
(I think you’re cheating here – pretty sure that came after sliced bread… Ed)

8. Tell us about one of the best evenings you’ve ever had?

I’d like to say performing at the Royal Albert Hall, or meeting the Queen at the Royal Variety Show; maybe being presented with a Brit Award by Kim Wilde, playing Wembley Arena and chatting to Princess Diana, or being backstage with Audrey Hepburn at a Unicef gala. But sadly, it would be
an evening from my teenage years… probably a swimming club disco when I’d just discovered the wonder of fancying boys.
Or being in a room full of musicians when I was a struggling songwriter and jamming into the early hours.

9. The best crisps flavour?

Depends on what you’re drinking, doesn’t it? You can’t go wrong with ready salted in my opinion.

10. And the best biscuit for dunking?

No contest – without doubt it’s the Cadbury’s milk chocolate finger. Nibble off a bit at each end to reveal biscuit, stick one end in your tea and suck really hard, like it’s a straw, until you can feel the tea on the tip of your tongue (it will be a bit cold by the time it’s made its way up the finger). It melts in your mouth like a little piece of chocolaty heaven!
(This. Is. Genius. – Ed)

11. Your top three most-visited, favourite websites (excluding social media & BBC News!)?
• Wetransfer (I’m always sending audio files to other musicians)

Thomas Johnson Antique Furniture Restoration

• Zara.

12. What’s your secret superpower?

I know when people aren’t telling the truth.

13. Your favourite quote? Movie, book or inspirational – we won’t judge.

John Lennon; ‘Life is what happens when you’re busy making other plans’.

14. Cats or Dogs?

Dogs!! Lizzie is my third Staffie (or fourth if you count ‘Rastus’ the Staffie we had when I was growing up). I adore ALL dogs (it’s just some owners I can’t stand).

Beverley with her daughters – from left to right Connie, Beverley, Mollie & Brenna

15. Chip Shop Chips or Home Baked Cake?

Again, ‘Queen of Sponge’ – I make a mean coffee cake. The trick is not to overwork the mixture once you’ve added the flour, and even self-raising requires half a teaspoon of baking powder. Just saying.

(*taking notes* – Ed)

16. What shop can you not pass without going in?

Conran on Marylebone High Street, but I rarely buy anything, I just harrumph when I look at the prices and think, it’d be much more satisfying to find something lovely in the bric-a-brac section of a charity shop…

17. What’s your most annoying trait?

According to my children I make a clicking noise in the back of my throat when it’s itchy. They tell me I also take ages to answer a question (because I’m thinking about it!) and that I often don’t finish a sentence.

18. A penguin just walked in the door wearing a panama hat. Why is he here?

It’s a trick question Batman! Obviously K.G. Bird has come back for his top hat and umbrella…

19. You have the power to pass one law tomorrow, uncontested. What would you do?

Thank GOD you asked me this question!!
I would ban modified exhausts. Oh, hang on a minute, they’re already illegal, aren’t they? But
the police never seem to take any action, do they? Hmmm…
Why do these noisy numbskulls need to draw attention to themselves by annoying everyone else? Have they got minuscule… er, brains?

Interview by: Laura Hitchcock

SSAPC SORTOUT

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SSAPC SORTOUT

At Yeovil Football club site

Sunday 13th March

South Somerset Agricultural Preservation Clubs sort out.

The annual event, which gives people a chance to shift unwanted agricultural equipment, memorabilia and books.

For information:

D Fox: 01935 822845

B Jones: 01935 824523

Have you ever explored from Martin Down? 9.5 Miles | Dorset Walks

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This route is a personal favourite of ours, a beautiful route at any time of year. These images are from last summer – but we last walked it to check it just two weeks ago. It was January, and the day was grey, cold and damp, and cionsequently so were the pictures. So I thought I’d cheer your viewing with a little much-missed summer sunshine instead. Same route, just six months earlier!

Starting out with easy parking in the less well known Lower Car Park
at the back of Martin Down, enjoying easy paths across diverse Dorset landscapes, climbing the ridge for fantastic views and staying with it before moving into woodlands and descending back across the AONB. Your feet barely touch a road, it’s all well-signed footpaths and bridleways.

The routes we feature have always been created and walked recently by ourselves, so you know you can trust them – we aim for unpopulated routes with as little road and as many views as possible!

You can always see the route and follow it yourself via the free Outdoor Active app – see all our routes here.

To follow this route using the Outdooractive App, please find the route here.

All images Laura Hitchcock

The first climb from the car is the worst; it’s not steep but it does just Keep. Going. Up. But what’s not
to love about walking past Toby’s Bottom? Do keep an eye on the map in Boulsbury Wood; detour slightly to Mear’s Pond for a quiet pause. When you reach the summit of Pentridge Hill, have a quick explore through the pine trees to appreciate the views on the other side of the hill before moving on.

Important Note:

If the weather has been wet then do take our alternative, one mile shorter variation here which has a diversion around the corner near Boulsbury Farm. As the track passes through a large pig unit it follows a narrow track which is often unpleasantly filled with slurry. It is impassable after wet weather.

The view from the top of the first climb up Blagdon Hill – you can just make out the car park half way to the horizon.

As you leave the woodland behind it’s impossible not to stop at this stile for a minute to absorb the surprise view that has opened up across Tidpit Common Down.

Surely I’m not the only one to get the urge to charge up this path with arms flung wide? Be ready for that gorgeous forest you’re about to head into.

Old forest, tall new trees.

One of my favouirite holloways, is as you leave Boulsbury Wood.

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How about joining our Production Team? Making the sort of things that folk love to eat. We need some food-oriented people to come and join us in our busy, hands on, lively and pacy, small but perfectly formed Production Kitchen where taste comes way before line speed and quality comes way, way, way before quantity. 

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All roles need you just need to be friendly, have a big fat smile on your face with a real can do attitude combined with the work ethic of a beaver. In return, we pay decent salaries to the right people so if you’ve got a totally gorgeous personality with a real feel for good food then one of these roles could right up your street. What a lovely way to start Spring! 

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Protect your pets from antifreeze!

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All animals, but particularly cats, are susceptible if they ingest common antifreeze. How to protect them – and how to spot suspected poisoning – is explained by Leanne Garrett RVN ISFMDipFN

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It is important to remember at this time of year that screen wash and other antifreeze solutions contain the very toxic chemical Ethylene glycol. Ethylene glycol is used to prevent freezing, most commonly used in cars but can also be found in paints and even in ornamental snow globes!
This chemical is extremely toxic to all animals (including humans!) but cats are more susceptible due to their metabolic differences.

This metabolic difference in cats means that even when a very small amount is ingested it causes very rapid and fatal injury to the kidneys which can result in death.

Cats are weird. They like it.

Cats are most commonly exposed when it has leaked into a puddle, been spilled when topping up car fluid levels or drained into a container in a garage. Cats can also be poisoned by drinking rain water that collects in a vessel that previously contained antifreeze.

Unfortunately, ethylene glycol is super tasty to cats, which is why it is so important to be vigilant and take extra care when using the chemical. It should only ever be used in closed systems (such as car engine coolant systems). Any coolant drained from cars needs to be disposed of carefully in tightly closed containers. Any spillages should be cleaned and mopped up thoroughly. Bottles containing ethylene glycol should be stored carefully and tightly closed.
If you are worried that your cat may have ingested ethylene glycol you should take your cat to the vet immediately! – the sooner medical treated is started the better chance of survival.

Signs of antifreeze poisoning:

• Increased urination • Increased drinking • Vomiting
• Depression
• Lethargy (being abnormally sleepy)
• Appearing drunk and uncoordinated • Seizures (fitting)
• Abnormally fast heartbeat
• Very fast, shallow breathing

How to avoid accidental poisonings:

  • Never add antifreeze to garden water-features or ponds.
  • Always keep antifreeze in clearly labelled, robust, sealed containers, away from pets and their environment.
  • Clean up any spills immediately, no matter how small, and make sure pets cannot access the area until it is clean and safe.
  • Always dispose of antifreeze safely – contact your local authority for advice.

How to ensure your garden hogs finish hibernating successfully

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Now is the time for cleaning hedgehog houses and ensuring they are not confused when they wake in the spring, says Jeanette Hampstead.

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I am often asked when hedgehog houses should be cleaned out. Well, the time is now! Hedgehogs that are going to hibernate are probably well asleep by now so it’s an ideal opportunity to have a little look.

Gently, and as quietly as possible, open the lid of the hedgehog house and part the nesting material. If there is a hedgehog in residence they will probably jump or make a hissing noise. If that happens just replace the nest! You could put some more hay in as well, then quietly replace the lid and withdraw.

Try to put the house back into the same position so the waking hedgehog knows exactly where it is and can find the food you leave out for it.
If the house is empty remove all the nesting material and insects. I clean mine with bleach and animal cleaning spray to remove any ticks or mites that reside unseen in the cracks and crevasses. Rinse well with water – from a hose is best. Allow to dry completely before replacing the hay back into the house.

How to deter cats

Any old or broken houses could be used as feeding stations. By putting hay in the entrance tunnel, you may deter cats from pushing through to the food; they often do not like the feel of it on their whiskers.

Where to place a hedgehog house is personal choice – I usually put mine under a bush or hedge with the entrance facing into the overgrown area to give it some protection from the weather. Having said that, we have had hedgehogs nesting in houses placed in the middle of the lawn, and even in an upside- down house waiting to be cleaned in a pile of dirt houses! Hedgehogs nest wherever they feel comfortable, and do not appear to realise there are any rules they should be sticking to.

It’s not dead!

Just as an aside; if you open a hedgehog house and you find a hedgehog that is not moving or making a noise, do not automatically think it is dead. A hibernating hedgehog is really cold. Dead cold. They are colder than freezing. It may be that they are so well asleep they are not aware of their surroundings, so replace the nesting material and the lid. Leave them alone to wake in the spring.

I sometimes put some newspaper on the top of the old hay to soak up the tiny bit of condensation the sleeping hedgehogs produce but it is not necessary.

Keep feeding

Feeding in winter is also a personal choice. I stop feeding wet cat food in jelly and just give dry food when the weather becomes cold. Wet food freezes, whereas dry cat biscuits do not. There is no need to crush, soak or break the biscuits. Crunching them is really good for hedgehog teeth so just feed them as they are.

Continuing to give the food into a feeding station helps those waking early from hibernation. Also they know where to find food if it is left in the same place regularly. Research has shown that hedgehogs can wake up as many as seven times over a winter. It is thought they wake because they are hungry, thirsty or have a full bladder. Some wake to move house too.

The Hazelbury Bryan Hedgehog Rescue has been incredibly busy in 2021; we are currently making provisions to buy a new incubator as two is often not enough. Funding help is much needed – if you are able to contribute you can donate via our paypal account here.

by Jeannette Hampstead

Part Time Nanny required

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We are based between Wincanton & Gillingham (<10 mins from each).
For details send CV to [email protected] or call for more information on 07884230579.

Do I need a prenuptial agreement?

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Congratulations! You’re engaged. You’re now looking at setting the date, booking the venue and writing the guest list; but have you considered a pre-nuptial agreement? Or do you think that’s only for the very wealthy?

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With the average age for first marriages now well into our 30s and the fact that second marriages are increasing year on year, people are thinking more about the need to protect the assets which they have already accumulated, in the event of a separation.

What is a prenuptial agreement?
A ‘pre-nup’ is an agreement entered into by a couple prior to their marriage or civil partnership. It sets out who owns what and outlines what would happens to their assets and income if their relationship breaks down.

Who should get a prenup?

You should think about setting up a prenup if you:

  • Have assets that you would not want to share if the relationship broke down
  • Have children from an earlier relationship and want to protect their inheritance or keep specific assets for them
  • Have your own business, or perhaps a family farm, which you want to retain control of
  • Want to safeguard money or assets that you are expecting to receive in a future inheritance
  • One of you has debts and you would like a clause acknowledging that those debts are nothing to do with the other partner

Relationship breakdown is never easy. Emotions can run high and it can be difficult to think about financial matters.
If an agreement cannot be reached and Court proceedings are necessary this can be very expensive and stressful. The UK court has a wide discretion when dividing assets and this can result in uncertainty for all. By entering into a properly drafted prenuptial agreement you can alleviate some of that uncertainty and stress as you will already have agreed how to divide your assets in the unfortunate event of the relationship breaking down.

Are prenups binding in the UK?

Currently, in England and Wales prenups are not 100% legally binding. The Court will always retain jurisdiction. But, if a prenuptial agreement is properly entered into then it will carry significant weight in any subsequent court proceedings.

What do we need to do to enter into a prenup?
It is important that both people receive proper advice and the following formalities are adhered to:

1. Both people must enter into the agreement of their own free will and without any duress, influence or pressure.
2. Both people must provide full and frank financial disclosure to each other.
3. Both people must obtain independent legal advice from separate solicitors before entering into the agreement.
4. The agreement should be fair and reasonable to each party. (It is prudent to specify review dates for key events in the future, such as the birth of a child or say in 5, 10 or 20 years’ time to ensure the agreement remains fair and reasonable)
5. The agreement should be finalised no later than one month prior to the date of the marriage.
6. Each person should intend that the agreement determines the outcome of their financial arrangements in the event of divorce.

All of these formalities are crucial – if they are not complied with then a Court may decide to ignore the prenuptial agreement. Prenups are not for everybody but they are certainly not just for the rich and famous anymore.

If you are looking for further advice about prenuptial agreements please contact Kimberley Davies on 01202 338569 or at [email protected]

Trethowans – Law as it should be

Eighty glistening eyes stared at me!

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‘I was shocked when I heard a loud gurgling sound as I took the bins out one night – but was delighted when I saw what it meant’, says Jane Adams.

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I first heard the gurgling when I was putting the recycling out.
It was a dark, wet night, and as I dragged the bin to the curb, the sound grew louder. I wondered if the sewer under the lawn was blocked again, and sighed. Poking rods down the drain hadn’t been a pleasant experience.

Weirdly, when I returned with a torch, the sound had stopped. But waving a light around the garden, its beam came to rest on something unexpected; eighty glistening frog eyes. And as I stared back, their gurgling and croaks restarted.

The possibly-wrong pond

We’d dug a pond the previous autumn. Friends had helped. Dreams of dragonflies flying round the garden had spurred us on. At 2×1 metres, the pond was small. But it had a shallow and a deep end, and a liner, and we’d thrown in a few native aquatic plants. We weren’t sure if what we were doing was right, but it was worth a go.

I hadn’t given frogs much thought until then. Well, you don’t, do you?
And yet ‘common frogs’ are far less common than their name suggests. Slug and snail killing pesticides have cleared many gardens of the common frogs’ biggest food source. Imported diseases have weakened and killed them. And, in the UK, we’ve lost 500,000 ponds in the last century. Is it any wonder common frog numbers have been falling for over 40 years?

The start of something good

That year, the first year I saw them, February started icy cold, then turned to drizzle; the cue frogs need to emerge from the undergrowth and spawn. For a few days, our previously lifeless pond had overflowed with sex crazed frogs, and their clumps of spawn filled the shallows. Local frogs had needed a pond, and I hadn’t even realised.
Fourteen years later, that same small pond is now the wildlife hub of our garden. Mammals and birds use it to drink and bathe. Dragonflies, damselflies, newts, and toads lay their eggs amongst its weeds.

And, as I drag the recycling out to the curb, and February’s drizzle descends, I smile at the sound of gurgling.

How you can help your local frogs:

  • Add a pond; they prefer one 2m across, but even a tiny ‘pond in a pot’ helps
  • Provide piles of rocks, logs and leaves; spaces to shelter from predators, shade in hot summers and for food foraging
  • Avoid using pesticides and slug pellets; an unwanted garden pest is welcome food for frogs and toads, and the chemicals may be harmful

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By Jane Adams – Naturalist. bTB Badger Vaccinator. Nature writer. Photographer. Bee Watcher.