Long standing resident of North Brewham, aged 89 years, passed away at home on the 17th July 2022, after a long illness.
A much loved husband, Dad, Grandad and Great- Grandad.
Will be greatly and sadly missed by all his family and and friends.
TURNER, HERBERT
New Rural Crime Team
Dorset has now tripled the size of its rural crime team, says Sgt Jane Moore
On 20th June 2022 Dorset Police launched its Rural Crime Team Engagement Project at Kingston Maurward College, who kindly hosted the event.
Dorset’s Police and Crime Commissioner David Sidwick and Dorset Police’s Chief Constable, Scott Chilton attended the event with many of our partner agencies, including Dorset Council, the Environment Agency, Forestry England, Neighbourhood Watch, the National Farmers Union and Cornish Mutual.
The Rural Crime Team aims to ensure we deliver exceptional local policing that is visible, connected, and trusted. Dorset Police is committed to responding to rural crime and will relentlessly pursue those involved. We will provide a professional response that always puts the victim of rural crime first.
Dorset Police will create a hostile place for perpetrators of rural crime and anti-social behaviour.
The rural crime team across the county has now gone from three dedicated officers up to 10.
“Policing rurally is a different beast” says Assistant Chief Constable Farrell “we have to face it in a different way, starting with providing more dedicated rural officers to tackle crimes like fly-tipping, poaching, hare coursing and machinery theft.”
We work closely across all geographical areas, supporting local Neighbourhood Policing Teams. The aim of the rural crime team is to make all of Dorset a safe place to live and work, and less attractive to rural offenders.
The Team support victims in rural communities and targets repeat offenders and organised crime groups.
Within communities
The Rural Crime Team works with local communities and partners to ensure that the views and concerns of rural communities are listened to. This includes developing and delivering innovative new ideas such as the podcast series Country Cast that was delivered last year, and the team’s new Rural Crime engagement van.
The Team believe it’s vitally important that we are accessible to the communities we police. We will attend many local events and meetings where you can speak with us face-to-face, as well as regularly updating our social media accounts (Facebook, Twitter & Instagram) and arranging individual contact when required.
Details of when and where the van will be can found here:
Facebook:
@DorsetPoliceRuralCrimeTeam
Twitter:
@RuralCrimeTeam
Insta:
@dorsetpoliceruralcrimeteam
Check in with your Five Ways to Wellbeing
With longer evenings and a quieter month, Izzy Anwell of Dorset Mind reminds us to do the five-step check-in with our own wellbeing
The month of June was jam-packed as everyone grappled with fitting their regular workload around an extended Jubilee bank holiday and half term.
It’s safe to say that July is much quieter – and the longer days and shorter nights give us more time to focus on the things that are important to us, like spending time with family and friends, our hobbies and our interests. We suddenly have more brain space to consider our own wellbeing. It’s time to check in and re-apply the Five Ways to Wellbeing to our routines …
Take notice
In an effort to ‘check in’ with ourselves, we need to take more notice of what our bodies and minds need. A study by BITC (Business in the Community) from 2020 showed that 41 per cent of employees reported having experienced mental health symptoms which were caused, or worsened, by work in 2020. With burnout levels still on the rise, it is time for us to become more vigilant in spotting the signs of stress and especially workplace stress. Making time for ourselves and our interests outside of work is a necessity when trying to build a healthy work/life balance. Next time you’ve had a stressful day at work, organise to see a friend or do something that makes you feel good.
Getting active
Incorporating even a low level of exercise into our routines can help us to de-stress, as it regulates the body’s stress hormones adrenaline and cortisol. Regular exercise isn’t for everyone, but ‘getting active’ doesn’t have to be as scary as it sounds. Walking, for example, is a free, easy way to get active if you’re able to get out and about. It helps to build stamina and improve your heart’s health. And a long walk in the sunshine after work is a sure-fire way to blow away cobwebs and flat moods.
Learn
Learning something new – an activity or new hobby – improves brain health and create new neural pathways. It could also potentially introduce you to a new community of like-minded people.
Connect
We all probably feel as though we’ve been doing an awful lot of connecting during the month of June, whether that was at a Jubilee street party, a Pride march or a bank holiday barbecue, but it is important to consider whether we really took the time to check in with our loved ones and whether we know how they are actually doing.
One in four people experiences a diagnosable mental health problem each year, which roughly equates to 16 million people across the UK. From this statistic it is clear that you’re likely to know someone suffering in silence and who could use your support.
Simply asking the seemingly insignificant question ‘Are you OK?’ really can make a difference. The power of this small gesture is often underestimated. It could be all that is needed to start an important conversation. However, others may need a second gentle push to get them talking, it is important to always ask twice. You’ll always get the truth the second time around.
Give back
The two most common reasons for volunteering were that people wanted to ‘improve things and help people’ or that ‘the cause was important’.
Why not make your new hobby/activity fundraising or volunteering for us? Dorset Mind offers several volunteer positions across the charity and you can offer support to help local people’s mental health.
When we feel overwhelmed it may feel like we have nothing more to offer. However, individuals who report a greater interest in helping others are more likely to rate themselves as happy. When we ‘give back,’ we ‘get back’ in return.
Find out more about the Five ways to look after your mind and body here.
If you’d like to volunteer for Dorset Mind, head to the website here.
Dorset Mind offers 1-2-1 and group support across Dorset that helps people with common mental health problems like anxiety, stress and depression. Find out more here.
Scammers continue to target as the cost-of-living crisis bites
New research by Citizen’s Advice Dorset has found that 76% of people in the South West have been targeted by a scammer this year. As the cost-of-living crisis deepens, this number is expected to rise further, and the organisation is concerned.
Rovarn Wickremasinghe, Chief Officer, Citizens Advice Bridport, said: “A shocking number of people in the South West have been targeted by a scammer so far this year. We know scammers prey on our worries and fears, and sadly, the cost-of-living crisis is no exception.”
“Anyone can be targeted by a scam, and as the purse strings are tightened and financial pressures pile on, it’s important we work together to protect ourselves and each other.”
The top five most common types of scams reported were:
- Deliveries, portal and courier services
- Government or HMRC scams
- Banking
- Rebates and refunds
- Investment or financial
How to spot a scam
Citizens Advice Dorset is sharing five top tips to help you guard against a potential scam:
- It seems too good to be true – for example, scammers pretending to be energy companies to lure people into ‘too good to be true’ deals
- You suspect you’re not dealing with a real company or a genuine person – take a moment to step back and double-check. ALWAYS check the email address from the sender
- You’ve been pressured to transfer money quickly
- You’ve been asked to pay in an unusual way – like by an iTunes vouchers
- You’ve been asked to give away personal information such as passwords or PINs.
What to do
If you’ve been scammed, Citizens Advice Dorset advises you to talk to your bank or card company immediately if you’ve handed over any financial and sensitive information or made a payment.
Secondly, report the scam:
- Offline scams – those using the telephone, post and coming to your door, can be reported to the Citizens Advice website or by calling 0808 223 1133.
- online scams – report to the dedicated Scams Action service either online or on 0808 250 5050
- Text scams – report to your mobile phone provider by forwarding it to 7726
Where now for Dorset’s small village shops?
Village shops benefitted from the ‘stay local’ message during the pandemic, says Rupert Hardy, chair of North Dorset CPRE – but tougher times lay ahead
For many years, Dorset CPRE sponsored the Best Dorset Village Shop class in the county’s Best Kept Village competition. I was one of the two judges. Sadly the competition is in abeyance currently as it needs a new major sponsor, but we can – and should – still write about the sector and applaud some of the better shops. We awarded prizes to many throughout Dorset, but I would especially mention Iwerne Minster Village Stores and Motcombe Community Shop in North Dorset.
Oddly, Covid was kind to village shops, which had been under pressure for decades from the relentless onslaught of supermarkets. Government advice to stay at home combined with fear of infection drove shoppers to avoid supermarkets, except for using their online delivery services if available. Village and farm shops, however, offered a friendly face to consumers who otherwise felt isolated, while they benefited from the trend to ‘shop local’ at a difficult time for all. Consumers increasingly wanted to buy higher quality sustainable food with lower food miles, and showed greater awareness of food provenance. Price was less of an issue.
Things have changed
Roll forward to 2022 and life is dramatically changing, with shoppers facing a cruel cost-of-living crisis. Village shops may still benefit from a long-term trend towards sustainability, but they also face much tighter purses. Price wars will intensify and we all know which supermarkets are winning: the discounters, Aldi and Lidl. The latter have been helped too by greater availability of new sites, thanks in part to the misfortunes of the hospitality industry under COVID, particularly pubs.
There may have been less online shopping as the virus diminished, but it is still a clear long-term trend that the supermarkets can take advantage of and village shops find very hard to exploit. Another factor has been the rapid decline in physical newspaper sales, previously these were major drivers of customer flow for the shops.
What can they do?
The bigger shops are in a much stronger position as they can offer a broader range of stock and also diversify if space allows by opening cafes, which bring extra footfall and generate higher margins. Village shops can sell more high quality, local, sustainable produce, which we applaud as we support local food and drink producers, of which Dorset has many.
More shops are joining symbol groups, such as Spar, to help their buying power and provide marketing support. We ask readers to support village shops as much as they can, as they are vital community hubs.
We hope to use our column to report back on some of the best local shops, supplementing the coverage already provided by the BV magazine in its ‘Meet your Local’ column.
We start with Robin Hill Stores in historic Marnhull, the largest village in Dorset. Located in the heart of the Blackmore Vale, it features in Thomas Hardy’s Tess of the D’Urbervilles as “Marlot”. Atul Odedra has run the successful shop and Post Office since 2014. He sells cards and other non-food items as well. The premises and the neighbouring shops were once the large Michael Harding’s Stores. The building was originally four separate cottages, thought to date from the late 1600s, which have been combined and added to over the years.
Atul has made various changes after taking over the shop. He has brought in more local food and drink, including Mounters Gin, which is made in the village. He bought a bigger chiller so he can sell more fresh food, and he has now installed a fresh milk station, supplying milk from the Dorset Dairy Company. Best sellers are cakes and biscuits. He employs local part-time staff, and his brother Dilip is temporarily helping out. Atul supports the Marnhull community in many ways, providing window displays for local businesses, advertising space for community events and ticket sales for community groups.
Various village groups can take over the window displays and as I write there is a Marnhull Fest display.
Locals report how Atul goes out of his way to order in special items for them. Legend has it that Atul walked from Bourton to Marnhull when the village was cut off by snow, bringing back fresh milk. That is dedication to the community!
He admits that the shop benefited indirectly from Covid, but life this year has got much tougher with the cost-of-living crisis. He is finding more severe price competition from the supermarkets, but is trying to sell more local food which the supermarkets don’t stock. Looking to the future, Atul is thinking about converting an empty room into a café to improve footfall into the shop too. Reviews mention good stock, amazing service, friendly owners and a fine little Post Office.
Stickland, Monica
Passed away, peacefully at home on 11th July 22 after a short illness
Loving Mother of Philip, Nick & Dawn. Mother- in- law to Elaine, Mike & Adam. Proud Grandmother & Great Grandmother.
Funeral to take place on 8th of August at 12.15pm at Weymouth Crematorium.
Family flowers only but donations to Weldmar at home to Woods Funeral Care, Dorchester .
Bright attire only please.
Summer’s shouting in the greenhouses
Summer at Thorngrove has arrived with its usual riot of colour – and the never-ending task of watering, says Kelsi-Dean Buck
Summer has officially arrived and oh boy have we felt it! Despite those odd spots of wind and rain, the heatwave really let us know that June was in full swing, and the summer season was upon us. What’s there to say? Stunning weather, BBQs, catching up with friends long into the evening …for many this is the best time of the year.
At Thorngrove, it’s the little things that you often don’t think would be a big deal, that catch us. Just watering our plants during the hot periods is a gargantuan task. Some plants need a drink twice a day! When you think about the thousands of plants we have …yeah, that watering time really adds up! The glasshouse and nursery teams really do have their work cut out for them during a heatwave, but we’re pleased to say their care and hard work means the plants are looking more lush than ever. Remember to take care in your own gardens if you’re working in the heat – stay hydrated, invest in a good sun hat, take breaks, and don’t forget the sun cream. We often put the care for the things we love ahead of ourselves, and no garden is worth heatstroke, trust us!
Blowsy summer
Wandering through the courtyard and glasshouses during the summer in particular really can take your breath away. It’s not that there’s a favourite time of year, but each season brings something different and summer is all about an abundance of colour with plants vying to be the centre of the attention. Last month we mentioned the roses, of course (click here for a little video!), but there’s all kinds of summer plants which are just begging to seen and stand out from the rest.
While we spend plenty of time trying to sell our beautiful plants to you, we wanted to take another moment to remind you that we now have a huge range of garden furniture available from Thorngrove. There’s still plenty of time to take advantage of the summer evenings, and if you’re having friends or family over, or are just seeking a new hanging chair for yourself, we’ve got you covered. High quality dining sets, loungers, fire pits and more.
Your dream summer garden is something we’d love to help create, so please do visit our online shop, or pick up a brochure the next time you visit.
Kelsi Dean-Buck Thorngrove Garden Centre
Weight Loss – Just be good enough
Successful, long-lasting weight loss is never about the ‘perfect’ diet, being hungry or weird food rules, says nutritional therapist Karen Geary
If you are one of those ‘all or nothing’ types, especially when it comes to going on a diet, chances are that permanent weight loss has always eluded you. Add mid-life hormone challenges or other life stressors into the mix and it can become particularly disheartening.
If you think you have to follow the ‘perfect’ diet (whatever that is), chances are that this very idea is holding you back from achieving your weight loss goal.
Perfectionism generally backfires at some point as it is just not sustainable. The desire to be ‘perfect’ means that you didn’t do what you wanted to do simply because you couldn’t do it ‘perfectly’.
Generally it goes like this; you decide you were not ‘perfect’ today so you resolve to start tomorrow/Monday/next week – and then you’ll do it ‘perfectly’. But it never happens – or if it does, it is unlikely to be for more than a week.
Weight loss is a mind game – this means mental health is a priority when it comes to losing weight, and placing unreasonable expectations on ourselves just creates added stress. Good mental health also relies on hormone balance and a healthy gut function – nourishing yourself properly is therefore absolutely essential.
It’s a trap
What is the ‘perfect’ diet anyway? Is it some fad diet from the Daily Mail? Eating superfoods? Intermittent fasting? No. It is none of these. The ‘perfect’ diet is the one you can sustain, day in, day out, for the rest of your life. It is about being consistent. Yet we can all fall into a diet trap, where we torture ourselves with weird food rules, subject ourselves to yo-yo-ing blood sugar, get so hungry we will eat anything, possibly accumulate nutritional deficiencies – and end up exactly back where we started.
The way out of this is to recognise that there is no quick fix. Instead you must give yourself time to discover what is right for you long term. It means doing the best you can, using days to your advantage when you feel really motivated. And those days when things are not so great, to feel OK about having that chocolate biscuit, and that is ‘good enough’! Weight loss is not a ‘perfect’ road.
Here’s the practical guide on being ‘good enough’ that I work on with my clients:
Create a meal plan
Decide what and when you are going to eat and try to stick to it 80% of the time. Meal planning stops you from torturing yourself with that conversation you have with yourself in your head about ‘what to eat’, and whilst you decide, you go and eat a few biscuits. Choose a time when you are not hungry to do this. I meal plan weekly because it keeps the shopping bills down. Daily, I write it on a post-it note and stick it on my fridge (see image opposite). It also tells my husband (and hungry teens! – Ed) what we are eating today as I’m the cook and it stops him from haunting the fridge. Plan your snacks too if you like to snack.
Check your portions
Using your hands is less stressful than counting calories/points/syns.
Include the following in every meal:
- palm size – a portion of protein.
- cupped hand – a portion of carbs (grains and fruit/veg). If it is just vegetables, double the size.
- thumb – a portion of fat
- Snacks should ideally be high in protein and fat – for example nut butter and apple, or Greek yogurt and fruit. Protein and fat is more satisfying and may help prevent your snack from becoming a full on fridge raid.
Sit down to eat Stay off your phone and don’t watch the TV. Food is to be enjoyed and is generally a sociable time with family and friends.
Get rid of the scales
Whilst it has been proven that people who weigh daily are consistently more successful at achieving their weight loss goals, for some a ‘bad’ number can trigger going off-plan.
If that is you, then a tape measure is your best friend. If your waist measurement is half your height or less, you are in a good place metabolically, with a lowered risk for cardiovascular disease, high blood pressure and diabetes. Measure yourself weekly.
Have a back up
Know what you are going to do if you go off-track. Note what happened and why – but do so without judgement. Your whole day is not ruined. Just carry on with what you were planning to eat for the rest of the day, or go again tomorrow. All your progress is not undone – you are simply human.
I have a plan
If you are the type of person who likes the inspiration of a done-for-you meal plan, I have put together a no-fuss Summer Plan, so you can enjoy the best of the summer with minimal kitchen time. You can download it from my website here.
No more oasis – and don’t say maybe
The 1950s green ‘wonder foam’ for flower arrangers is not actually green at all, says flower farmer Charlotte Tombs
Oasis. No, not the 1990s Brit band but the green blocks of crumbly square foam much-loved by flower arrangers. This squeaky plastic monster was a revolutionary wonder-product back in the 1950s, when it replaced those metal spikey frogs our grannies all had under their sinks.
Oasis is made from the reaction of phenol and formaldehydes which are turned into foam when air is passed through. This is then treated with detergents to give it the ability to soak up water. It’s a chemical nasty which just keeps on giving. As it ages it either breaks into tiny pieces which run down your plughole, or it goes in to landfill. And although it crumbles, floral foam doesn’t fully dissolve in water or degrade in landfill or soil. Instead, it breaks down into smaller and smaller micro-plastics. These can take thousands of years to completely revert into natural elements and are a real menace for the environment by contaminating our marine life and food chains.
Its horrors are now so widely accepted that The Royal Horticulture Society (RHS) banned the use of floral foam at all its shows from 2021. A ‘single use, non-biodegradable, micro plastic that can’t be recycled’ is frankly a sentence of expletives to any green gardener. The Church of England’s legislative body has also been asked to consider a ban on floral foam in their churches.
Image: Charlotte Tombs
Please ditch the foam
As a flower farmer, I grow my flowers in the most sustainable way I can. I grow a huge variety in all different shapes and forms to try and cater for as many pollinators as possible.
It feels so wrong, then, that a plant I grow would be jabbed into such a toxic product. Luckily, a lot of florists have seen the light! There is an ever-growing array of great ideas for supporting cut flowers: in cucumbers, tightly packing moss into chicken wire (which can then be moulded into the shape that’s required), a grid made with compostable tape on top of the vase, filling the vase first with stiffer foliage … All of these methods take time to get used to but are equally as effective as using floral foam. And as a bonus you can have that warm fuzzy feeling that you are doing the right thing.
Obviously, before the 1950s and the invention of floral foam, flowers were arranged and displayed using all of these methods. Search Google for ‘eco-friendly flower arranging’ for a host of inspirations, and try charity shops, antique stores or eBay to find your own vintage options. Failing that, they even now make those vicious metal frogs in plastic. At least they are not single-use.
How can I dispose of my own used floral foam properly?
Oasis is hard to dispose of environmentally and can seriously contaminate compost, garden waste and water when its fragments end up in the wrong place. So here’s what you need to know about its disposal:
Don’t put it in the compost or garden
Water containing bits of foam should never be poured down sinks, toilets or drains: pour it through an old pillowcase, cloth or tea towel to capture as many of the fragments possible. Place the remnants in landfill-bound rubbish and pour the strained water into a hole in the garden.
Charlotte offers workshops throughout the year – please see northcombe.co.uk for further details.
