It has been reported that one in three of us will die without making a Will.
There are numerous beneficial reasons for making a Will which include making future provision for a spouse/partner, distribution of sole assets, appointment of guardians for minor children, ensuring inclusion of step children as beneficiaries, future care needs for a beloved pet(s), avoidance of potential family conflicts and appointment of suitable Executors
An appointment to make a Will or review an existing Will would include a discussion of personal circumstances together with some advice regarding Inheritance Tax planning, if necessary.
Preparing for the inevitable is important and having a Will and keeping it up to date is essential. Many leave it late and for some it’s too late and so distribution of their estate would be subject to the intestacy rules.
Most of us can look forward to increasing life expectancy, but unfortunately that could come with the loss of full mental capacity to manage your own affairs. A registered Lasting Power of Attorney enables you to rely upon trusted person(s) of your choice to make important financial, health and care decisions on your behalf, if and when, you need it in the future. This puts you in control.
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An Attorney appointed by you under a Lasting Power of Attorney for Property and Financial Affairs can manage bank accounts, pay bills and sell a property for essential funding if required. Under a Health and Care Lasting Power of Attorney, the Attorney can attend meetings when key decisions are being taken to ensure your wishes regarding future care and even your wishes regarding life sustaining treatment are fully considered. The Attorney would always be entitled to receive relevant personal information and attend important meetings despite the much tightened General Data Protection Regulations (May 2018).
Please do not hesitate to contact me if I you would like a helpful discussion and advice about the process.
It’s home to wheelbarrows and gardening tools today but this glorified garden shed in the grounds of Manston House also holds a unique place in British history.
Here on consecutive days in October 1882, the late Mrs Edith Hanham and her 89-year-old mother-in-law Lady Eliza Hanham became the first two people in modern Britain to be legally cremated.
The cremations were hugely influential but also controversial, causing an outcry in many quarters.
Some Manston villagers complained of ‘very disagreeable odours’ that were ‘palpable enough to all who happened to be in the way of the wind’.
Crematorium – Roger Guttridge
Others claimed cremation was ‘distasteful’ or that it ‘interfered with the resurrection of the body’.
Describing himself as the ‘husband of Lady Hanham’s favourite grandchild’, Duncan Skrine, of Reading, publicly condemned the cremations a ‘revolting proceeding’.
He claimed the Hanham grandchildren were ‘unutterably shocked at the deed and the heartless publicity given to it’.
‘We are certain that Lady Hanham, the widow of a clergyman, thoroughly English in her sentiments, never could have contemplated, nor would have sanctioned, such a disposition of her remains,’ wrote Skrine.
Historically, cremation was practised by many ancient civilisations, including the Romans and the Saxons, but after the Anglo-Saxon era, it died out in this country.
The flame of interest was rekindled in the 19th century and fanned by the immense pressure on cemetery space resulting from rapid population growth.
In some cemeteries in Victorian London, bodies were being buried up to 14 deep.
When the Cremation Society was launched in 1874, its high-profile members included the novelist Anthony Trollope, the painter John Millais and Alice in Wonderland illustrator John Tenniel.
The society build its own crematorium at Woking and in 1879 cremated a horse.
Although no-one could find anything illegal in this, the Home Secretary gave into public pressure and banned human cremations.
But for the interest of Manston House owner Captain Thomas Hanham, the campaign may have ended there.
Prompted by the periodic flooding of Manston church and his family vault when the River Stour burst its banks, Hanham and his third wife Edith made a mutual pledge to have their remains cremated.
After Edith and Lady Eliza died in 1876 and 1877 respectively, Captain Hanham stored their bodies in a mausoleum until cremation became legal.
There wooden coffins were placed inside lead coffins to comply with sanitation laws.
The mausoleum also survives in the Manston House grounds.
Cremation campaigner William Robinson, who attended both ceremonies in October 1882, reported: ‘The cremations were carried out in a simple and inexpensive furnace, not only without any nuisance to the neighbourhood but without the slightest unpleasantness to those who stood within 2 feet of the white flame, which promptly resolved the bodies to their harmless elements.
‘The coffins, lead and all, were placed in the furnace on fire-brick and iron plates, which allowed the flames to rise freely up but prevented the ashes from falling to the furnace below.’
Sturminster Newton’s Medical Officer of Health, Dr Comyns Leach, was also present at the cremations and raised no objection.
When Thomas Hanham himself died just over a year later aged 58, he too was cremated.
Mausoleum – Roger Guttridge
This ceremony also made history as the first entirely Masonic funeral in England for 100 years.
Dorset diarist Julietta Forrester, who was among the mourners, records that the Rector of Manston absented himself, ‘he not agreeing with the late Captain’s views nor with this style of funeral’.
Julietta was of the same mind, describing it as a ‘shockingly anti-Christian ceremony’.
The Manston cremations effectively gave the practice a toehold in England and directly influenced later developments.
Several cremations followed at Woking and over the next 20 years the Cremation Society opened crematoria in Manchester, Glasgow, Liverpool, Darlington and London.
By 1904 more than 4,400 people had been cremated.
And it all started in what was to become a garden shed in Manston.
• A chapter on the Manston crematorium appears in Roger Guttridge’s book Dorset: Curious and Surprising.
A 1930s woodcut by Shaftesbury’s High House Press features the L-shaped thatched cottages that formerly occupied the end of Laundry Lane.
The cottages probably stood on the same site as the ancient Laundry House, referred to by the Rev John Hutchins in his 18th century History of Dorset.
Laundry Lane Cottages – from Roger Guttridge’s book Shaftesbury Through Time
Hutchins explained that Laundry or ‘Lander’ Lane ran from Shaftesbury Abbey in what is now Park Walk down to St James’s parish and that there was a well called Laundry Well in a garden at the bottom.
Even in Hutchins’ time, Laundry House was ‘pulled down but the well is still in use’.
Hutchins believed that nuns from the Abbey carried their linen down the footpath to wash it in the well.
Most of the old Laundry Lane is now known as Stoney Path but its route has not changed since the nuns trod it daily 1,300 years ago.
The thatched cottages in the woodcut were destroyed by fire during the Second World War.
Tradition has it that a woman jumped from an upstairs window and was caught in a blanket by people from a nearby pub.
The cottages were replaced in 1953 by a house called Stonehaven, which had its own unusual links with the war.
Stonehaven – Roger Guttridge
It was built using not only stone from its fire-ravaged predecessor but plywood bomb cases to line the roof and tiles ‘robbed’ from Tyneham, the abandoned Dorset village that was famously requisitioned by the government during the war and never given back.
In 2018 the then owners of Stonehaven told me they believed the site of the old Nuns’ or Laundry Well was in the corner of their garden.
Back in September I decided to join the world of CrossFit – with no real idea of what it involved, or indeed whether it was something I would enjoy.
With a gentle push from a friend, I decided to give CrossFit Shaftesbury a go… and I haven’t look back since.I often get asked what CrossFit is all about and if I’m honest I struggle to explain it in a way that does it justice. CrossFit is best described as a constantly varied high-intensity fitness program; it incorporates elements from different sports and types of functional exercise. It includes elements such as Olympicweightlifting, plyometrics, powerlifting, gymnastics, kettlebell lifting as well as high-intensity interval training. For those new to CrossFit this may feel daunting, intimidating and somewhat scary. But the beauty of CrossFit is that it is suitable for everyone regardless of your fitness level or ability.
The movements and techniques can be modified to help each athlete achieve their goals. This means that the programs are designed to challenge you as an individual, getting you closer to where you want to be, whether it’s to get stronger, fitter or simply to lose weight. It is also a great chance to try new forms of exercise. I never thought that I would ever be upside down doing handstand press-ups! There are lots of functional movements to master but it’s all about being patient and working at your level. I am in no doubtthat I will be doing handstand walks, muscle-ups and double-unders in no time, especially with the help of the amazing coaches and the other members of the gym (aka the ‘box’).
CrossFit is so much more than a fitness program and the community plays a massive part in the whole experience. Everyone in the ‘box’ wants to see the other succeed and without them I certainly wouldn’t be hitting personal bests and getting the most out of the workouts.Still confused as to what CrossFit is all about? Why not give it a go and find out!
Always happy to answer your questions – send them to me on [email protected]
With any luck, this summer you’ll get to enjoy plenty of time outside, taking in the buzz, chirp and croak of hundreds of wildlife species. If you have a garden or outdoor space, a pond is a great way to attract and help more wildlife. The still waters of ponds large or small are important elements of many wider habitats, while also creating their own ecosystems.
Common DFrog, Rana temporaria leaping into a pond – Dale Sutton
Beyond the more obvious species such as frogs and newts, established ponds teem with aquatic insect life. The larval stages of flies, dragonflies, damselflies and beetles dwell and hunt amid the murky depths, spending the vast majority of their life cycle in the pond before a short emergence as adults. Pond skaters balance on surface tension, while water boatmen row with their hairy-legged oars. But it’s not just aquatic insects and amphibians that benefit. Birds and mammals come to the edges of ponds to drink and bathe. Placing logs or stones in the water can also help ensure there is a safe place for pollinators to stop for a drink.
Ponds host a variety of plant life, adapted to survive the wet conditions. Large and small ponds benefit from aquatic plants such as water starwort or spiked water milfoil, which help oxygenate the water.
If you’re thinking of creating your own pond, it’s important to think about structure. Shallower areas and gently sloping sides provide warmer, oxygenated microclimates for plants and animals to thrive in. They also provide a safe edge where birds can bathe. Submerged, floating and emergent plants can act as useful cover for pond dwellers. Fallen leaves and twigs are good hiding places for animals but try to avoid placing your pond under a tree that will shed lots of leaves into the water.
Pond Skater – Katrina Martin
As well as having ponds on several nature reserves, Dorset Wildlife Trust works with landowners and other partners to ensure ponds are well-managed, providing habitats particularly for the rarer species that depend on them. Garden ponds play an important role in this network. They don’t need to be big – in fact, any amount of water can be beneficial, as it encourages aquatic species to spread and colonise new areas.
Well… It is finally summer, and we should all find time to relax and enjoy the garden! Having said that, in between your tea-breaks, here are a few ideas to help maintain your garden in tip top condition!
Deadhead flower borders regularly to prolong flowering. Leave roses that produce attractive hips. Cut back delphiniums and geraniums after the first flush of flowers to encourage a second flowering period. Feed after cutting them back.
Delphiniums are in the buttercup family (Ranunculaceae) and have been grown in the UK for centuries. The word delphinium comes from the Greek delphinos, meaning dolphin, probably because of the shape of the opening flowers. Their common name, larkspur, dates back to Tudor times. – Shutterstock
Divide clumps of bearded Iris and take cuttings of patio and container plants ready for next year. Cut back plants in baskets and follow by feeding to encourage new growth and help revive tired displays.Tender perennials such as Fuchsias are best propagated from cuttings. July is a great time as young plants root more easily, cuttings should be taken from the tender new growth for the season.
Liquid feed containerised plants and keep well watered in dry spells. Mulching borders can help retain moisture, and keep down the weeds – this will save a lot of work. A really thick layer of mulch (2-3in all over) works best. Autumn flowering bulbs can be planted now.Most perennial weeds are best dealt with in the summer when the weeds are in active growth. Digging out is often best if you are trying to avoid using weedkiller.Start collecting seed from plants you want to grow next year, especially Aquilegia Calendula, Poppy and Love-in-a-mist.Sow biennials such as Foxgloves, Sweet William and Wallflowers, Honesty and Forget-me-nots, to plant out in autumn for a stunning display next spring. Sow into large seed trays or a dedicated seed bed, then separate seedlings when large enough to handle.
Pest and diseases Vine weevils can also be a problem at this time of year. Watch out for aphids (greenfly and blackfly) and capsid bug damage on stems and leaves of young shoots.Look out for and treat blackspot on roses and scab on Pyracantha.
Avoid pruning your hedges until the end of August at the earliest if possible. The main breeding time for garden birds is between March and August so leaving the hedges can give them time to rear their young. Garden birds need all the help they can get!
By: with Pete Harcom – Head Gardener at Sherton Abbas Gardening [email protected]
Its 5pm on a Friday night and you are getting ready to go out with friends… however, you are the nominated driver for the evening. You stop at your local drink shop and the non-alcoholic offerings are pretty slim – either fruit juices, fizzy drinks or flavoured waters, so you find it hard to be enthused. Fast forward to 2021 and the bar has been raised. Whether you are looking at non-alcoholic wine, gin or just awesome 0% products that are totally unique, they aren’t just for non-drinking friends or pregnant friends, they are there for all of us who have a discerning palate and enjoy a nice glass of something.
Rivani Zero Bianco
Jukes Cordialities are one of the key players in raising the ‘zero to hero’ bar. Matthew Jukes, the brainchild behind Jukes who is an awesome wine writer based in the UK, embarked on an idea of making a non-alcoholic drink a couple of years ago. He has perfected a range of drinks made from natural ingredients that do everything that a wine does on the nose, palate and finish but without any grapes or alcohol. When we first sampled the products at Vineyards, we were fighting over which styles of wine they reminded us of; Viognier and Bardolino were mentioned more than once. Very low on calories and all you need to do is add chilled water (still or sparkling) or tonic water. They have really made us sit up and take notice of the alternatives out there. £4 per 30ml bottle (makes 2/3 drinks depending on taste preference.)
Conker distillery, who most of you will know produce a fantastic Dorset gin, have made Bowser Leaf. Derived entirely from the spring water distillation of five botanicals, including mint, tarragon, thyme and basil, it’s a non-alcoholic spirit drink that really delivers on flavour. It is a deliciously refreshing alternative which has been flying out of our shop since its launch at the start of this year. £20 per 70cl bottle.
Bowser Leaf
Rivani who produce some of our amazing Italian sparkling wines have made a de-alcoholised wine made from the Macabeo grape. Fruit driven and a really refreshing alternative to the alcoholic versions. Customers have added a very small amount of fruit cordials to make an alternative to a Kir Royale. £7 per bottle.
There’s a whole multitude of reasons as to why you might be drinking zero and we are delighted to see this sector pushing forward and becoming more interesting for those of us who enjoy the flavour of a great tipple, but sometimes want a night off. Yes, you heard it here first – even the most seasoned merchant has a night or two zero. All things are best when savoured in moderation and zero is fast becoming the new hero.
By: Hannah Wilkins, Indie Wine Merchant, Vineyards of Sherborne
Part time housekeeper & gardener with high standards required for long-term position.
Based near Stow-on-the-Wold Cotswolds
Lovely one-bedroom unfurnished self-contained cottage available
General household duties and some plain cooking. Help needed with Donkeys during the week and a pair of dogs when we are away, so animal lover essential.
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Whilst most property transactions generally proceed without major issue, there are sometimes avoidable problems that can occur. Sarah Dunlop, Associate in Blanchards Bailey’s Agriculture & Estates team, shares her top tips on how you can prepare for selling your land:
Wouldn’t it be wonderful for all property transactions to proceed quickly without any hiccups causing delays? Once you decide to sell your property often you want to press ahead as quickly as possible. A little preparation can really help. Here are my top tips to consider before you proceed:
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Know what you’re selling.
The first port of call would be to review your title documents. If the property is registered at the Land Registry, does the title plan accurately reflect what is on the ground? If your land is not registered at the Land Registry, do you have all the necessary title deeds? You might be surprised to know that circumstances have arisen where legitimate parties try to sell property that is not in their name, though they occupy and are beneficially entitled to the property.
Speak to your lender.
If you have a mortgage, it is worth making contact with your Lender to ensure that your charge can be redeemed on the sale and to be clear on whether you have any early repayment charges. If you are only selling part of your property, your lender will require sufficient loan to value security so you should make enquiries as to whether they would be willing to make a part release of your security and on what conditions, if any.
Consider access issues.
How is your property accessed? It is not uncommon in a rural area for there to be undocumented access to property and this will inevitably be raised by any prudent buyer.
If your property is occupied, how is it occupied? It is often desirable to have a formal agreement in place and information concerning occupation should be provided to your lawyer from the outset.
Speak to the experts in their field.
Also, I highly recommend that you engage with a reputable land agency to help market your property. They will be able to guide you to the right time and method of sale that would best suit your circumstances and your land. Any additional considerations should be negotiated into the memorandum of sale. For example; if you are selling at mid-season and wish to retain a crop, this needs to be made clear from the outset and communicated to your buyer.
Know the real cost.
Lastly, it is always worth speaking to your accountant prior to disposal as there could be tax implications on your business and the opportunity could be taken to reduce any tax potential liability by forward planning.
By following these top tips, you can help iron out any bumps in the road of selling your land before they arise. If I or any member of the Agriculture & Estates team can assist, please do get in touch on 01258 459361 or email [email protected]