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Respite break proves just the tonic for Lynsey and her mum

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As a retired registered nurse, Lynsey was used to being busy and dependable, but after years of caring for her mum, Flo, at home, she recognised that she needed a break. It wasn’t that she needed a holiday, or to ‘get away from it all’ – she just needed to catch her breath.
This realisation prompted Lynsey to research respite breaks for her mum. Having worked in care homes, she had seen the benefits that a short stay could offer – both to the respite guest, and their family carers. Lynsey began looking for a home where Flo could be comfortable, and where she could have confidence in the quality of care.

Flo (right) and her new friend Maureen at Greenhill House in Cheddar
© Somerset Care Group

Can I come back?
After thorough research, Lynsey chose Greenhill House residential and dementia care home in Cheddar for her mum’s respite break: ‘When we visited Greenhill House, prior to my mum going in for respite care for a week, I was impressed by the friendly staff, pleasant surrounding and relaxed atmosphere. I had researched many homes and it was important to find the right one, as this was the first time she had gone into a home as a resident.
‘The food is excellent, plentiful and varied, with a snack bar available, so the residents can help themselves if they get hungry throughout the day. The activities are also varied, led by helpful and enthusiastic team leaders.
‘As a retired registered nurse, I have worked in many homes – and I would rate this as one of the best. I wouldn’t hesitate to use Greenhill House again or recommend to others.’
While Lynsey took a well-earned break from being her carer, Flo enjoyed the change of scene that her respite break provided – so much so, that she asked when she could return!
Flo now visits Greenhill House three times a week for day care, and loves joining her new friends for activities and mealtimes.
With care no longer all-consuming, Lynsey and Flo have had space to reconnect – to be mother and daughter again.

Taking tea in the sunny garden at Greenhill House in Cheddar © Somerset Care Group

Strength in seeking support
It’s not always easy to admit when you need help – especially with something that feels like your duty, like caring for a loved one. But caring is a skilled profession which requires specialist training: it’s not something we’re automatically prepared for. And when strong emotions are involved, the weight of responsibility can feel even heavier.
No matter how much you might want to, you can’t pour from an empty cup.
A respite break provides a chance to rest, recharge and reset, safe in the knowledge that your loved one is being well cared for.
Somerset Care’s day care and respite services support you and your loved ones to live independently at home, for as long as possible. For information and advice, please visit somersetcare.co.uk, or contact our expert enquiries team on 0800 817 4925.

Lendology loans helping Dorset households cut carbon and costs

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A family’s decision to cut their carbon footprint has seen their home leap from an EPC Band D to Band A – and they credit local community lender Lendology for making it possible.
Mike and his family wanted to install solar panels, but the upfront costs were a stretch too far. A home energy loan from Lendology CIC – a not-for-profit community lender that works in partnership with local councils – helped them bridge the gap: ‘They couldn’t have been more helpful,’ said Mike. ‘Without their support, I don’t think we could have done it.’
The new system generates enough electricity to meet the family’s needs and will support a heat pump installation too.

rooftop solar


Lendology’s people-first approach is proving vital as energy bills rise and rural homes face retrofit challenges.
Last year, the organisation delivered more than £3.6 million in affordable loans to more than 400 homeowners across the South West – half of those were for renewable and energy efficiency improvements.
Now working with 20 local authorities, Lendology is part of a wider community finance partnership alongside SWIG Finance and Great Western Credit Union. Together, they’ve delivered £30 million in impact-led funding across the region, supporting households and small businesses often overlooked by mainstream lenders.
For homeowners looking to future-proof their properties or fund essential improvements, Lendology offers a fair, accessible alternative – one that is helping Dorset households build warmer, greener, more resilient homes.
To check eligibility or find out more, visit lendology.org.uk.

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Canford Classic & Supercar Sunday – Official 2025 magazine launch

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Dorset’s biggest celebration of motoring returns – and this year it’s moving up a gear.

On Sunday 24th August, the stunning grounds of Canford School, Wimborne will host Classic & Supercar Sunday 2025 – bringing together more than 700 classic and supercars, from timeless icons to the very latest hypercars.

We’re delighted to launch the official show magazine, your complete guide to this Bank Holiday weekend spectacular.

What’s Inside the Magazine?

The magazine is packed with everything you need for the perfect day:

  • Maps and itinerary – so you won’t miss the famous Rev Offs (11:30am & 1:30pm), awards, or the big departures at 4pm.
  • Feature highlights – including the all-new Sunken Lawn Showcase, where automotive legends like the Lamborghini Miura, a Ferrari 250 GT Lusso, and an Aston Martin DB4GT Zagato will sit alongside modern marvels such as the Aston Martin Valour and Ferrari F40.
  • Kids’ favourites – details of the much-loved Mini Rovers attraction, where young drivers can take the wheel for free and earn their first licence.
  • Rev Off preview – a look at the chaos, combustion and sheer noise of this year’s louder-than-ever sound battle.
  • Showstoppers section – detailed specs on some of the rarest machines on display, from the Ferrari F12 TDF to the Lamborghini Miura.

More Than a Car Show

Classic & Supercar Sunday has quickly become one of the South’s leading automotive events – but it’s also a family-friendly day out. Alongside the cars, you’ll find live music, food and drink, and the warm community atmosphere that makes this event so special.

Don’t Miss It

With tickets selling fast, advanced booking is strongly recommended – GET YOURS HERE.
Gates open at 10am on Sunday 24th August, and the action runs all day until 4pm.

Never thought I’d be telling you to listen to Trump …

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As British farmers warn of suicides over IHT, Trump delivers a rare moment of truth – and exposes Starmer’s deafening refusal to engage

‘We were losing a lot of people to suicide. They’d borrow money to pay the estate tax and they were not able to pay it. And some banks are ruthless – they wouldn’t do anything, and they [the farmers] would end up committing suicide.’ – President Trump.
28th July 2025 has been a momentous day. Donald J. Trump, the leader of the free world, has said something not only momentously sensible, but, honestly, truly profound.
Since the autumn Budget last year, which announced plans to remove inheritance tax protections for agricultural land, farmers have been shouting from their tractors for someone – anyone – to sit up and listen.
And what has been the government’s response?
Keir Starmer and his Labour cabinet have stuck their fingers in their ears and screamed, ‘I can’t hear you!’, as the NFU and farming community warn that farmers will take their own lives over this decision.

Beautiful dirt
Let me be clear: I’m no Trump fan. The only thing worse than his politics might be his golfing ability … or perhaps some of his more unsavoury past connections. But if he is the only man on the planet who can get Starmer to listen – to take seriously the reality that British farmers may be driven to suicide by the financial pressure of trying to keep their land in the family – then all power to him.
If you haven’t seen it, we’ve set it to play on the left. Trump was asked by Beverley Turner, of GB News, for his view on farmers and the impact of the ‘death tax’ – inheritance tax – in a meeting with journalists with the two leaders.
His answer?
‘A lot of these farms, they don’t make a lot of money, but it’s a way of life.
They love their way of life and they love that dirt. That dirt is the most beautiful thing they’ve seen.
‘I mean, they are farmers. They love doing what they do. They don’t know how to do anything else, but they don’t want to do anything else.’
It’s not exactly Rudyard Kipling’s If … but the sentiment is real.
And it’s true.
Farmers love dirt.
They love doing the hard graft that most people in this country wouldn’t even contemplate doing. They don’t do it for money. They don’t do it for fame. They don’t even do it for thanks.
They do it because it’s what they love. It’s what their parents loved. And their parents. And their parents before them.

Real consequences
In May, it was reported that a farmer from Barnsley, found dead in his barn last October – the day before the government’s budget – had taken his own life out of fear for what Rachel Reeves’ proposals would mean.
His son told an inquest that he believed his father wanted to ‘beat’ the government’s proposals and ‘save the farm for future generations.’
Trump finished by saying: ‘We have totally ended the estate tax and those situations – so there’s no death tax.
‘So when a parent leaves the farm to the kids, they don’t have to worry about their local, possibly unfriendly, banker coming in and stealing their farm.’
Well said, Mr Trump.
Thank you for giving me three minutes of joy watching Starmer squirm as you spoke of the plight of farmers.
How about we don’t Make America Great Again? Let’s just work out how to Make Farming Work Again.

Glam, glitter and irresistible hooks – MUD were the kings of the dancefloor in platform heels.

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Back in the 70s, no school disco was safe from the swaggering stomp of Tiger Feet, the rock’n’roll charm of Lonely This Christmas, or the sheer joy of Dyna-mite. Their energy-packed hits, crafted with the songwriting genius of Chinn and Chapman and producer Mickie Most, became the soundtrack to a generation. MUD scored 3 UK No.1s, 11 Top 10s and 15 Top 40 hits – not to mention success across Europe and beyond.

These days, two of the original members still take to the stage: Rob Davis (now a Grammy-winning songwriter for the likes of Kylie Minogue and Sophie Ellis-Bextor) and Ray Stiles – who answered our questions with a grin and a glint.

And if you’re about to dismiss MUD as a one-era wonder, let’s talk about Ray Stiles for a moment.

Since 1988, Ray’s been part of The Hollies – yes, that band, the ones in the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame, who brought us The Air That I Breathe and He Ain’t Heavy, He’s My Brother. He’s toured the world countless times, still selling out shows across the UK, the US, Scandinavia, Australia and more. Now that’s a career.

Ray Stiles on The Hollies’ tour of New Zealand

But when he’s not globe-trotting or laying down basslines, Ray’s also partial to Chinese food, Maltesers and his spaniel’s curly hair and long eyelashes – as we found out when we hit him with our Random 19 Q&A…

19 (mostly) sensible questions with Ray Stiles of MUD

What was the last song you sang out loud in the car?
I never have music – or the radio – on in the car

What was the last film or box set you watched – and would you recommend it?
I recently watched (for the second time) Downton Abbey. I missed it when it was originally on the TV but found it a bit later. Just the best drama with amazing actors – Maggie Smith is a hero of mine

It’s Friday night, you have the house to yourself, and no work allowed. What are you doing?
I’d just sit and watch TV!

Your go-to comfort meal?
Chinese food …

What little luxury would you buy with £10?
Two boxes of Maltesers

The best crisps flavour?
Cheese and onion

And the best biscuit for dunking?
McVitie’s digestive

What book did you read last year that stayed with you – and why?
The Subtle Art Of Not Giving A F**k – an amazing guide to live a happy, stress-free life by concentrating on the things that really matter to you and leaving out those that don’t

What’s your secret superpower?
I don’t have a superpower, I just try hard in everything I do – but it doesn’t always work out, which can really frustrate me

Bertie the beautiful American Cocker Spaniel

Cats or dogs – and tell us about yours?
We have an American Cocker Spaniel called Bertie. He has curly hair and long eyelashes. He’s very beautiful (as you can see from the photo)

What’s your most annoying trait?
I can be very slow at getting round to doing things – but I do a good job when I get there … I think

What totally irrational thing makes you unreasonably cross?
I don’t get cross, but I do get irritated if I’m trying to follow up on something and don’t get an answer back (e.g. on email)

What shop can you not pass without going in?
Tech shops and music shops

What was your first job – and what did it teach you?
I worked in the architects section of the London Electricity Board in Waterloo, London. It showed me that a daily job was not for me – I needed to join a band and get out into the world

What completely ordinary thing brings you disproportionate joy?
Completing a job or task that I worked out for myself

What was the last gift you gave someone?
A father-and-son linked bracelet which sums up our amazing relationship (he’s thirty-four)

Ray Stiles on stage

What in life is frankly a mystery to you?
How darts players can hit those tiny squares on the dartboard to score 180 time after time!

Chip shop chips or home-baked cake?
Chip shop chips

You have the power to pass one law tomorrow, uncontested – what would you do?
I’d ban traffic wardens. They just upset people for no good reason! Ha ha ha …


Catch MUD live at The Exchange!

📅 30th August 2025
🕢 7.30pm
🎟️ Tickets £25
📍 The Exchange, Sturminster Newton, Dorset

Expect Tiger Feet, Oh Boy, Lonely This Christmas, Dyna-mite and a whole lot of glam-fuelled nostalgia. MUD still know how to have a good time – and take the audience with them.

Grab your tickets now from The Exchange

Anne Marie, Baroness van Tuyll van Serooskerken

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Passed 17th August 2025

Previously of Caundle Marsh

Anne Marie, Baroness van Tuyll van Serooskerken, died peacefully at home in Vogelenzang surrounded by family on 17th August 2025. Much loved mother of Alexandra, Helen and Julia and wife of Georges. Funeral to follow in Oxfordshire.

A cappella excellence in Dorchester: one night only

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Music lovers are in for a rare treat this September as the internationally acclaimed Gentlemen of St John’s College, Cambridge return to St Peter’s Church in Dorchester for one night only.
On Saturday 6th September at 7pm, this celebrated vocal ensemble – affectionately known as ‘The Gents’ – will perform a programme spanning more than 600 years of music. From Renaissance polyphony to contemporary arrangements, their concerts are known for exquisite blend, impeccable musicianship and engaging charm. A septet of singers from the choir’s rich tradition will take the stage, bringing the unique sound and heritage of St John’s College Chapel to the heart of Dorset.

The Gentlemen of St John’s College, Cambridge, will be performing for one night only in Dorchester


The Gents last performed at St Peter’s two years ago, drawing a full house and widespread praise. With their reputation for selling out performances across Europe, the US and Asia, early booking is strongly recommended.
Formed from the choral scholars of St John’s College, The Gents are a professional touring group who perform both sacred and secular works worldwide. Their acclaimed discography and international tours have made them one of the most respected male vocal ensembles in the UK.
Further details and tickets (from £14) can be found on the Music at St Peter’s website: musicatstpetersdorchester.org

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Council tax changes coming?

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Q: My neighbour told me that the way we pay council tax is changing but I can’t see anything about that in my recent council tax bill. Can you explain?

A: The government is currently consulting on the administration of council tax including:
Changing the ways council tax is billed, collected and enforced
modernising the support available in the system
supporting councils to improve efficiency
The government says that it is aiming to create a fairer and more efficient system for taxpayers and local authorities.
One of the proposals is to change council tax billing from 10-months to 12-months. Another is to amend how council tax is collected – including giving households more time before councils can demand full payment, and placing a cap on the fees when councils seek liability orders for unpaid tax.
Other issues which are up for consultation include:
modernising council tax disregards, to ensure they continue to support those they were intended to
improving efficiency in billing for councils.
exploring whether there is anything the government can do to remove barriers to effectively challenging bandings
Tom MacInnes, Director of Policy at Citizens Advice, said:
‘Spreading council tax payments over 12 months rather than 10 is a good start – it will help people to budget more effectively, especially those on lower incomes.
‘We also welcome the government’s review of how council tax is collected – something Citizens Advice has been campaigning for.
‘Council tax is our second biggest debt query area, narrowly behind energy arrears. A quarter of clients with council tax arrears need advice about dealing with bailiffs, which can be a terrifying experience. Current rules mean small debts quickly spiral out of control – worsening hardship rather than providing the support people need to get back on their feet.’
You can read the full consultation document online at https://www.gov.uk/government/consultations/modernising-and-improving-the-administration-of-council-tax and, if you want to respond, you can do so either online or by emailing [email protected] or by writing to:
Ministry of Housing, Communities and Local Government Local Tax Team,
Local Government Finance
SE Quarter – 2nd Floor
Fry Building
2 Marsham Street
London SW1P 4DF
The consultation closes on 12th September 2025.

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Record-breaking summer at Museum of East Dorset as Minecraft adventures draw the crowds

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It has been a summer to remember at the Museum of East Dorset, where visitor numbers have soared by an impressive 250% following the launch of Minecraft-inspired family activities.

Since the start of the school holidays, Wimborne’s much-loved museum has welcomed wave after wave of children and parents eager to take part. The programme has combined the familiar world of Minecraft with the museum’s heritage setting, encouraging playful discovery and imagination – and all without a screen in sight.

From day one, the activities have struck a chord. Families have been creating their own ‘Player Skins’ at craft tables, making masks, and sculpting in clay. Others have grabbed a spade at the interactive Sandbox Mining zone to uncover hidden treasures, or followed the Mob Hunt Trail through the galleries in search of blocky intruders. The costume station, where youngsters can dress up as a Creeper, Enderdragon or another Minecraft character, has also proved a favourite.

On certain dates, the Garden Room has even been reimagined as a Mob Arena, complete with NERF Minecraft bows and crossbows for brave visitors to test their skills against mobs of the night.

Operations Manager Andy Putt said: “The Minecraft sessions have offered a fresh and engaging way for young visitors to connect with local history – learning about architecture, archaeology and community heritage in the process. There’s even been a bit of maths thrown in which the kids don’t seem to have minded!”

Arthur and Lorna Downing enjoying Minecraft fun this summer

Parents and grandparents have praised the activities for sparking creativity and making the museum a place the whole family can enjoy together.

Arthur and Lorna Downing, aged 8 and 10 from Corfe Mullen, visited with their mum and grandparents. Arthur said: “I’ve loved the Mob Arena shooting range and building at craft table.” His sister Lorna added: “Finding all the hidden figures on the museum trail was great fun.”

Museum Director Francesca Hollow said: “We’re absolutely delighted by the response. This initiative has shown how a modern trend like Minecraft can open new doors to learning and spark an interest in heritage. It’s been wonderful to see the museum buzzing with so many youngsters and full of energy and excitement. The Museum of East Dorset continues to prove that history isn’t just something to look at – it’s something to build, explore and bring to life.”

The Minecraft programme runs until Saturday 6th September, and tickets give unlimited entry to the museum for a full year. For more information and booking, visit www.museumofeastdorset.co.uk