A Life Remembered
In Memoriam
Paul Leatham
1st April 1993
Remembering a kind husband and dad who left us so suddenly
With Love
Jan, sons and family
Sarah J. Naughton’s The Festival review
I started reading Sarah J. Naughton’s The Festival in publication week, just to get ahead of interviewing Sarah for the Random 19. This was a bad idea – I do not have time to read for fun in publication week.
And yet… it just kept luring me back, and in bite-sized chunks and ever more frequent tea-breaks I find myself writing this having almost-but-not-quite-finished. And I’m on tenterhooks. By the time you’re reading this I’ll know the ending.
Four Women
Orly, Lenny, Mel and Thea have been best friends since school. But now it is 20 years later and inevitably they have drifted apart.
One Weekend
It is Lenny’s 40th birthday, plus Orly and Mel need cheering up, so Thea suggests a weekend away at a festival in their hometown. It’s a chance for them all to reconnect.
Not all of them will survive.
But their holiday soon takes a sinister turn, and not all of the friends will leave the festival alive…
Readers of Sarah’s bestseller ‘The Mothers’ will be familiar with the format as it switches between the four women sharing the tale. It’s a seamless transition, and though the first couple of chapters are a little disconcerting as you’re trying to straighten the characters out, you’ve soon spent enough time with each to know them, to understand their lives, see their flaws, and want to go for a drink with them anyway. And the friendships are as complicated and imperfect as any we all know from our teenage years.
The view of motherhood is instantly recognisable, and yet different for them all. The faint dark whispers of tension start early, and the echoes of it build with ever increasing speed until a pumpingly noisy, tired, oh-so-familar festival fairground feels physically assaulting to your brain… and that’s all I can tell you, because that’s where I’m up to.
If you enjoyed The Mothers, you’ll love Sarah J. Naughton’s The Festival. Even now, without knowing the ending, I’m strongly suggesting you read it in – in one long sitting, with an endless upply of hot tea, preferably.
Out now as an eBook, The Festival releases on 29th of April – order from Wayne at Winstones here.
Dazzlingly inventive’ – Sunday Times
‘A meticulously plotted exploration of friendship, foe-ship and the lies that bind, which builds to a gripping and powerful conclusion’ – Cara Hunter
‘The perfect dose of thrills and suspense, this will keep you engrossed to the very end’ – Heat
‘Tautly thrilling . . . This has hit thriller written all over it’ – Evening Telegraph
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(competition opens when the April issue of the magazine publishes on the 2nd April)
Martin Cowan | In Memoriam
27/03/1980 – Martin Cowan (Marv)
In Memoriam
Today you should be 41 but in our hearts and minds you remain forever 21.
Love from Mum, Ken & all the family xxx
ROBERTS, Pam
Death of much-loved Stalbridge ex-teacher Pam Roberts
Many ex-pupils of St Mary’s Primary School will be saddened by the death of ex-head teacher Pam Roxburgh (née Roberts) who died early last month in Blandford Hospital.
As ‘Miss Roberts,’ Pam taught at Stalbridge for in the 1970s before being appointed head of a primary school in Cornwall. She returned to Stalbridge as head of St Mary’s.
For the full oblituary please read here
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DEEK, Michael
Michael Deek
Remembering Mike, a dear husband, father and grandfather, died March 19, 2021.
Always remembered. – Much Love, Margaret, Sheila, Petra, Neil and families
The kindnessof strangers… | Simon Hoare
During this pandemic a light has shone very brightly – kind, community/neighbour focussed actions. Often, for the doer, a small thing; while for the beneficiary it can often be the thing that cheers their week and says to them, subliminally, ‘I mean something to someone’.
As well as shopping done, prescriptions collected, and catch up telephone calls made it has
manifested itself in organising birthday cards and virtual parties for recent Centenarians and a
myriad of other heart-warming actions. It’s just meant being a bit more aware of our fellow man
and the strength of community.
During lockdown this has never been more important, and I really do hope that that spirit of
caring and kindness can and will continue as we take the tentative steps back to more normal times.
If I may, I want to share one thing that happened to me recently.
I relay it because I think it makes my point above so well. A few weeks ago, on a wet morning, I was, along with others, volunteering to help with the logistics of the vaccine centre at The Exchange in Sturminster Newton.
A lady from Margaret Marsh was waiting for her neighbour who she had driven to the surgery (itself an act of kindness) for a blood test.
We fell, as you do, into conversation. I was so well swaddled against the elements, masked and hatted she had no idea to whom she was chatting.
She asked me if we were given refreshments to sustain us during our shift. I did the full ‘o woe is me act’ of which my wife and daughters are only too familiar.
“Well,” I said, “we do get the occasional cup of coffee served when they remember the troops out here at the front but that’s it. Not even a biscuit!”
(Pausing here for a moment, and in order to avoid a Legal Action, to say that Sharon the Exchange’s Acting Manager does look after us).
Her friend came out of the surgery, we bade our farewells, and off they drove. Twenty minutes later the lady returned in her car, drew up alongside me with a smile on her face and handed me a full carrier bag of tea, coffee and biscuits “for the volunteers and nurses etc to enjoy during a break”. Off she went
I don’t know the lady’s name; she was a stranger with whom I had chatted for a few minutes. We may never meet again. I must confess to being incredibly moved, as were the others on duty, by that tremendously generous and spontaneous act of kindness.
Of niceness.
Of care.
I doubt she will ever know (unless of course she is reading this publication and let’s be frank, who isn’t?) how much that single act meant to us. It was beyond the price of rubies and emeralds. It is Blanche DuBois in A Streetcar Names Desire who says..
“I have always depended onthe kindness of strangers.”
If spontaneous and unselfish kindness is a legacy of Covid that creates few strangers in our communities and lives, then that will be a blessing to cherish.
While I can’t promise tea and biscuits, if you do need any help or advice then do please get in touch with me. My email address is: [email protected]
or you can write to me:
Simon Hoare MP,
The Stables,
Whitecliff Gardens,
Blandford Forum,
DT11 7BU
or call on 01258 452585.
by Simon Hoare MP
Night Sky March 2021 | What you can see this month
Just before sunrise on 5 March, low on the south eastern horizon, search the eastern pre-
dawn sky and you’ll find tiny Mercury (now at its maximum distance from the Sun) will be
just above gas giant Jupiter. This conjunction between the Solar System’s smallest and
largest planets will occur in the constellation of Capricornus, known as the Sea Goat. You
will probably need binoculars, but be very careful using them close to sunrise! Mercury
takes just 88 Earth-days to orbit the Sun, while Jupiter takes 11.87 Earth-years.
By the 9th of March, the Moon will reach its full moon phase – look towards the south-east
in the early evening to see it. This month’s full moon will be a supermoon – in fact one
of several supermoons this year. Because the Moon’s orbit isn’t a perfect circle, its distance
from the Earth changes as it orbits the Earth. If the Moon comes within 90% of its closest
approach to the Earth and it coincides with a full moon (or a new moon) it is called a
supermoon.
Due to its closer proximity the moon can appear 14% larger and 30% brighter compared to
when it’s at its most distant. The April full moon will present the closest supermoon of this
year, and because there are no official definitions about what constitutes a supermoon,
some are counting the February and May full moons as supermoons too.
After dark on 19 March in the southwestern night sky, having drawn away from the
Pleiades, Mars will be visited by a 32%-lit crescent Moon.
Around midnight, from February all the way through to May, high in the southern night sky
you will be able to view the ‘Beehive Cluster’ which is an open star cluster about 520
lightyears distant in the constellation of Cancer, the Crab. It is one of the best-looking open
clusters of stars and one of the nearest to the Solar System. Also known as the Praesepe,
it appears as around 60 stars in a pair of binoculars, though a dozen or so really stand out.
The March equinox occurs on 20 March. It marks the first day of spring (vernal equinox) in
the Northern Hemisphere and the first day of fall or autumn (autumnal equinox) in
theSouthern Hemisphere. At the equinox, the Sun will shine directly on the equator and
there will be nearly equal amounts or hours of daylight and night throughout the world on
this day.
