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More EXCLUSIVE BV interviews – with Henry Blofeld and Luke Rake

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The February BV podcast begins, as always, with this month’s letter from the editor and all the latest reader’s letters – moving on to two interviews; one with the principal of Kingston Maurward college, and the other with Henry ‘Blowers’ Blofeld.

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In the first February episode:

  • Letter from the editor, Laura Hitchcock
  • Reader’s letters
  • Following a local outcry based on inaccurate information, Jenny Devitt speaks to Luke Rake, principal of Kingston Maurward College about the rumours surrounding the cancelation of apprenticeships
  • Legendary cricket commentator and broadcaster, Henry Blofeld OBE, known amongst his many fans as Blowers and famed for his plummy tones and all-round good humour, invites you to join him in a brand new show, My Dear Old Things – coming to the Exchange in Sturminster Newton and the Tivoli in Wimborne in March. Terry Bennett has a chat with Henry to find out about what’s in store.
    Click here to win tickets to one of the shows!

It’s time we learned to talk

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As February heralds Time to Talk day, Dorset Mind’s Ash Langwith looks at how we can make it easier to talk and to listen, breaking the stigma

Talking with friends and colleagues breaks the ice – shutterstock

Time to Talk Day is an annual celebration of mental health, organised by the two charities Mind and Rethink to encourage people of all ages to start a conversation, whether it be at work, a place of study or at home. The important thing is to be open with your friends, families and colleagues.
The aim is to normalise talking about mental health whenever you need to – at any time of year.

Why is talking important?
Talking honestly about our mental health helps to create supportive communities and an understanding environment. It will also reduce the stigma surrounding these conversations, which can be a massive barrier to seeking support. If someone in your circle doesn’t have the courage to speak up, seeing you take that first step might be the reassurance they need, letting them know they are in a safe space and have allies they can turn to.
As someone with several mental health conditions, I find that it’s important to express how I feel. And talking doesn’t have to mean over-sharing. If you’re nervous about talking about mental health for the first time, simply mentioning how you feel in the moment is a good stepping stone for further discussion.

Who can you talk to?
When talking about mental health, it’s easiest to talk to people you trust. Friends, family or colleagues can be the easiest people to approach for a chat when you need it. Sometimes talking is easier when you have something you can do to take the pressure off.
I find starting a conversation while walking, making a coffee, cooking or some other simple activity helps.
However, it’s important to remember that some people cannot seek support from family or colleagues. In situations like these there are still people you can turn to!
Dorset Mind offers 1-2-1 services such as counselling and mentoring. There are also wellbeing groups, where talking and making connections is encouraged to build a sense of belonging and self-confidence. Visit the website dorsetmind.uk for more information.

How can you help people who need to talk?
If you aren’t struggling with your own mental health but would like to support those who are, there are definitely ways you can help.
If you think someone is showing signs of struggle, ask how they’re really feeling; and ask twice because the first time you’ll likely get an automatic ‘I’m OK.’
Politely asking if someone would like to talk and if they’re really OK might be the push they need. If someone does open up, listen to what they’re saying. Asking questions is a great way of proving that you’re listening, and it will help to dispel assumptions about certain mental illnesses.

If you need emotional support, call the Samaritans FREE on 116 123, at any time.
Dorset residents or visitors can also call Dorset’s Connection Helpline on NHS 111 or 0800 652 0190
If phone calls aren’t your thing, text SHOUT to 85258.
If you’re having a crisis, it’s important to get help as soon as possible. If you’re in a mental health crisis and need urgent help, call 999 or head to your nearest A&E if you can do so safely.

Win tickets to see Henry Blofeld!

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Legendary cricket commentator and broadcaster, Henry Blofeld OBE, known amongst his many fans as Blowers and famed for his plummy tones and all-round good humour, invites you to join him in a brand new show, My Dear Old Things – coming to Frome, Sturminster Newton and Wimborne next month.

Henry is a brilliant raconteur and as usual his new show is full of humour and wonderful stories. And don’t think for a second that it’s just for cricket-lovers: the first half is entirely filled with behind-the-scenes untold stories of his time recording The Real Marigold Hotel. Henry said: “I can’t tell you how excited I am to be getting back onto the stage after nearly three years! It will be a lively mixture of making the Real Marigold Hotel and almost fifty years with Test Match Special. We’ll have huge fun and I can’t wait to see you all there!”

You can listen to Henry chatting to Terry Bennett about the show in the first of February’s BV Podcast’s here, and The BV has three sets of tickets give away!

Henry Blofeld is appearing at the Tivoli Theatre in Wimborne (8th March), The Exchange in Sturminster Newton (16th March) and the Memorial Theatre in Frome (17th March).

To be in with a chance to win, all we need you to do is select which venue you’d like to win tickets for. Please do make sure you’re available on the date selected before you enter, as tickets are non-transferrable!

To be in with a chance to win a pair of tickets to your chosen venue, just answer the first four questions in the widget box below. There are more chances to win by completing the other entry options if you so wish – they’re entirely up to you! The closing date for this competition is 6th March 2023 and only entries received on or before that date can be included. The prize will go to the first randomly chosen entry for each venue. Good luck!

Win 2 tickets to see Henry Blofeld in Sturminster Newton, Wimborne or Frome

Forum School Marks it’s 25th Anniversary

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The Forum School.
Image:
Courtenay Hitchcock

The Forum School (TFS) is tucked away in Shillingstone, near Blandford, and is both a school and a home for children and young people aged seven to 19 who are diagnosed with Autism Spectrum Disorder.
Sitting behind big gates in the middle of the village, the interior is often unknown to locals, but the school combines specialist education on an adapted national curriculum with therapies for speech and language, behaviour and psychology. With 24 hour care, the pupils are also able to enjoy acres of land for play, as well as facilities such as a theatre, sports hall, indoor and outdoor riding areas, a climbing wall and a swimming pool. Headteacher Daniel Pitt says ‘This will be a year of celebration for us as we mark our silver anniversary – we want to really celebrate what it means to live and work at TFS. We plan to create a book of stories and news from students and staff, past and present. There will be many activities (during the warmer months!) and we will enjoy time for reflection of the past 25 years and look ahead to the next 50.
‘In addition, we are delighted to see the commencement of our extensive plans to improve the site. We have high aspirations, not just for our current students but also for those we’ll meet in the future.’

Listen for the mistle thrush

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The mistle thrush may be the first to hatch eggs if you’re lucky enough to have one in your garden, says communications officer Alex Hennessey

The mistle thrush is larger and greyer than the song thrush, whose song is somewhat ‘squeakier’

The mistle thrush (Turdus viscivorus) is a large songbird, commonly found in parks, gardens, woodland and scrub. The mistle thrush is also known as the ‘rain bird’ and ‘stormcock’ as it can often be heard singing loudly from the tops of tall trees after heavy rain – typical weather for this time of year.
Visually, the mistle thrush is easily mistaken for the common song thrush (see Jane Adams’ article here), whose song is somewhat ‘squeakier’ and includes repeating phrases. The mistle thrush is pale greyish-brown above, with a white belly covered in round, black spots. It is also larger and greyer than the song thrush.
The common name ‘mistle thrush’ is likely inspired by this bird’s love of mistletoe. It enjoys the sticky berries found on that and other plants and, once it has found a berry-laden tree, an individual mistle thrush will guard it from any would-be thieves such as other mistle thrushes as well as species such as fieldfares who also feed on berries. In turn, the songbird helps mistletoe to thrive by accidentally ‘planting’ its seeds while wiping its bill on the tree bark to remove sticky residue. It also helpfully disperses the seeds in its droppings!
A mistle thrush’s diet isn’t confined to its favourite berries, however, and they will happily devour worms and other insects, as well as seeds and fallen fruit. Adding seeds and fruit to your bird-feeding selection may help attract these birds to your patch.
The mistle thrush is one of the earliest songbirds to breed and may lay a clutch of three to six eggs as soon as February. It’s normal for a mistle thrush to breed twice in a year, and while the male and female share the burden of feeding, the task of building the nest in a fork of a tree, from moss, roots, grass and mud, is the sole responsibility of the female.

To find out more about this fascinating species and what you can do to help the county’s wildlife, visit dorsetwildlifetrust.org.uk.

‘Super six’ promotions at Ellis Jones Solicitors

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PICTURE: LIFT OFF: LIFT-OFF: Ellis Jones Solicitors has made six promotions to start the new year. From left are new Partner Andy Kirby, new Associate Georgina Emmerson, Managing Partner Nigel Smith, new Associate Tim McMahon and new Associate Conor Maher. Not pictured: new Senior Associate Jennie Hedges.

A Dorset law firm has rewarded rising stars in what it has called a ‘super six’ promotions boost.
Ellis Jones Solicitors announced the appointments as it continues to develop talent from within.
Andy Kirby who specialises in wills, trust and probate, has become the first non-lawyer partner in Ellis Jones’ history. An accountant by profession, he has been with the firm six years, with 25 years in the legal sector.
Jennie Hedges, who has more than 20 years’ conveyancing experience with particular expertise in shared ownership and Help to Buy, has become a senior associate.
There were promotions to associate positions or Conor Maher, Georgina Emmerson and Rosemary Drew, who all trained at Ellis Jones, and also Tim McMahon, who joined in 2021.
Nigel Smith, managing partner, said: ‘‘We are proud to make Andy our first non-lawyer partner and the 22nd partner overall at the firm while Jennie’s promotion is another example of the fact that you don’t have to be a solicitor to progress at the firm.
‘Our new associates are the next generation of committed and talented lawyers, and I am excited to see how their careers progress.’
The appointments come as Ellis Jones was licensed by the Solicitors Regulation Authority as an Alternative Business Structure, allowing it to appoint non-lawyers as Partners and explore opportunities to grow.

The song thrush

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Wildlife writer Jane Adams is missing her early morning alarm call – but feels there may be signs of hope for mavis

The song thrush’s chest speckles are more streak-like – often shaped like upside-down hearts or arrowheads – compared to the spots of the mistle thrush.

Every year, around this time, the sound of a bird would pull me from sleep. Perched at the top of a neighbour’s rowan tree, its silhouette would gradually emerge. With head flung back, spiralling columns of condensing breath would rise from its beak, and I’d become lost in the phrases of its repeated song.
It was a song thrush.
Fifty years ago, its song would be heard all over Dorset (play the video above right with the sound ON to listen to a Dorset song thrush singing in my garden some time ago), but, like so many of our songbirds, its numbers have steeply declined by more than 50 per cent.
The last time I was woken by a song thrush was more than five years ago. Some people have blamed their decrease on sparrowhawks and magpies, but this doesn’t stack up. Research by the British Trust for Ornithology has found that over the last 30 years, the proportion of predated thrush nests has actually decreased. Thrushes are just as likely to have declined in areas where hawks and magpies are missing.
Sadly, human interference is the real culprit. We’ve taken away hedgerows, woods and wet ditches, increased drainage and tillage on the land and there are now fewer permanent pastures.
We’ve removed the food and the nesting sites which song thrushes need to survive.

A way back
Still, there is hope. By planting new woodlands, careful management of hedges and wildflower strips on farms, they – along with our other British songbirds – can thrive again. In some places where this land management has already been taking place, there are signs that song thrushes are making a tentative recovery.
We need to help them.
For centuries, this blackbird-sized brown bird with its spotted chest has been a part of our culture. Shakespeare and Chaucer called them mavis, but in more recent literature it’s probably better known from the poem by local lad, Thomas Hardy (see right).
Written at the end of the 19th century, The Darkling Thrush starts with a haunting, bare winter scene, full of hardship and sadness. It could have been written about the last few years we’ve had.
Then a song thrush sings.
As dusk fell tonight, a song thrush was singing in my neighbour’s garden.
Maybe Hardy’s darkling thrush can teach us something in 2023? Listening to, and being in, nature has a canny knack for helping our sense of wellbeing. So this February, try getting out into the countryside at dawn or dusk and listen for the hopeful song of a song thrush.

The Darkling Thrush
Thomas Hardy, 1900

I leant upon a coppice gate
When Frost was spectre-grey,
And Winter’s dregs made desolate
The weakening eye of day.
The tangled bine-stems scored the sky
Like strings of broken lyres,
And all mankind that haunted nigh
Had sought their household fires.

The land’s sharp features seemed to be
The Century’s corpse outleant,
His crypt the cloudy canopy,
The wind his death-lament.
The ancient pulse of germ and birth
Was shrunken hard and dry,
And every spirit upon earth
Seemed fervourless as I.

At once a voice arose among
The bleak twigs overhead
In a full-hearted evensong
Of joy illimited;
An aged thrush, frail, gaunt and small,
In blast-beruffled plume,
Had chosen thus to fling his soul
Upon the growing gloom.

So little cause for carolings
Of such ecstatic sound
Was written on terrestrial things
Afar or nigh around,
That I could think there trembled through
His happy good-night air
Some blessed Hope, whereof he knew
And I was unaware.

Sandroyd School Open Mornings 2023

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Art morning (2-7 years): Saturday 25th February 2023

Nursery & Pre-Prep: Wednesday 1st March 2023

Prep School: Saturday 11th March 2023

Book a place on our Open Morning to find out more about Sandroyd School.

All Open Morning visitors have a one-to-one meeting with our Headmaster, Alastair Speers, as well as having the opportunity to tour the school and meet with pupils and staff.

Please call our Admissions Registrar Dinah Rawlinson on 01725 530 124 to book your place. Alternatively, book a personal visit at a time that better suits your family.

Clayesmore School Open Morning

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25th February

Register today at Clayesmore.com or scan the QR code in the advert.